Tuesday, April 29, 2014

Swelling

Another symptom of HELLP syndrome is swelling. Evidence of my swelling that had already begun a month early. This photo was at my shower hosted by Lesley Tjaden and Molly Vander Linden on October 12th. I had 3 weeks to go at this point.

Look at those arms! They are so big they could be served on a buffet line, and you could eat on them for weeks. Imagine what my ankles looked like! I should have saved a picture just for notoriety sake. 
And PLEASE don't patronize me and try to tell me otherwise. It cannot be denied.

Remembering the birth, Part II


Part II:

Recap: Bumpy Ambulance Ride

We got to Sanford in Sioux Falls about 12:00pm. The EMTs from RV brought me to the labor and delivery part of the hospital. I remember they wheeled me to a couple different places because they weren’t sure where to go. Finally a Sanford Nurse led us to our destination. I was in a check-in room of some sort for 10 minutes alone before Wes joined me. He had gone to the ER part of Sanford, and they didn’t have a Deanna Foreman admitted there. He was sure he had the right hospital. So they directed him to the labor and delivery part of the hospital.



When he joined me, I had been hooked up to another fetal monitoring device. Everything was looking OK for baby. Dr. Boyle came to see us. Since I was 35 weeks and the labor was progressing, he was OK with helping it along (breaking my water) instead of slowing it down. If I had been earlier than 35 weeks, he would want to slow it down.



About 2:00pm (?) I was admitted to a labor and delivery room/suite. The room was large compared to the rooms in Rock Valley and Especially the rooms in Sioux Center. This was good because later there were many staff present. It had a TV that you could pick calming music or watch a movie and a whirlpool tub. Each suite had its own nurse for the duration of the shift. The next shift change, a new designated nurse took over.



Our nurse told us, in the case of the first birth, it usually takes a while, so she wouldn’t see us deliver. Her shift change was at 10:00pm. …Little did she know… She had attached wireless discs on my stomach that could still communicate to the fetal monitoring device. This allowed me to get up and walk around without having to drag the machine behind me. There were a couple times it wasn’t picking up the baby’s heartbeat. They were discussing the possibility of doing a C section since there were a couple missed heartbeats. First they attached the monitoring device directly to baby’s head and another to my uterine wall (?) to measure contractions. The discs on the belly don’t always read the measurements the best and attaching directly inside is more accurate. After they did that, baby's heartbeat was measuring ok.



At 5:00pm they broke my water to help the labor along. I heard later that when that is done, the contractions are much more intense. I had told Wes before birth, that I didn’t want an epidural. I might want pain killers, but NO epidural. When the contractions intensified, I asked for pain killers. They made me feel dizzy and only somewhat lessened the pain for half an hour. So I asked for more.



At this time I decided the contractions were too bad, I wanted an epidural. The order went out. When you ask for one, it takes an hour to actually get it in the room ready to be administered. So an hour later, they came with it. Only, I suddenly had to push! The midwife said, “Looks like you’re going all natural!”

Monday, April 28, 2014

Remembering the birth, Part I


Part I:


Thursday Oct 31st I was sitting in my cube at work. I felt nauseous. I felt that way getting ready for work in the morning but just thought maybe my blood sugar levels were off. I sometimes feel that way when that happens, but this is also a symptom of HELLP syndrome. At about 8:30 I felt like I might be having very weak contractions which made the nauseous feeling worse. I left work and drove to the park to call my husband. I wasn’t feeling well (nauseous still, so I knew I’d break down crying). Wes said later, “What did you expect? A tree to deliver you? Or go down the slide and POP, out comes baby?” Ha

Wes came to Sioux Center while I waited outside the Sioux Center Hospital and called my midwife Terry Englemann. She recommended getting checked out before we drove all the way to Sioux Falls. Dr. Jamie Vitamvas checked me out, and I was dilated to 0. They tested my blood. She said I had a slight Urinary Tract Infection which can cause early contractions. She gave me a prescription to take for the infection and another prescription to slow the contractions and relax my uterus. She had called my high-risk doctor, Dr. Jeffrey Boyle in Sioux Falls. Since I was 35 weeks, he was fine with me being discharged and waiting it out.

When we went to Lewis to fill out the pre-labor prescription, the pharmacist there said “That’s strange. I haven’t seen this drug get filled out in 6 years. And today it’s been filled twice. Another lady in the same circumstances as you, 35 weeks got it filled by the same doctor.” He told us it was a narcotic, so the longer we took it, the greater chance it affected the baby. He said he would only take it a day or so, and then get checked out again. I took one that night at supper.

About 3am the next morning, Friday, November the 1st, the contractions were getting worse. At 7am we counted the contractions, and they were five minutes apart. We went to the Rock Valley hospital about 8:00 to get checked out again. Dr. Green was on call. She said I was dilated to 2. She looked at the blood work from the Sioux Center Hospital and said there was NO urinary tract infection.

In both the Sioux Center hospital and the Rock Valley hospital, they had attached the fetal monitoring discs. At Rock Valley, the machine wasn’t picking up baby’s heartbeat all the time. I think she was just in a position that it wasn’t reading her heartbeat very well. Dr. Green conferred with Dr. Boyle. With the blips in baby’s heartbeat, contractions increasing in intensity, and dilating to 2, he wanted me brought to Sioux Falls. They continued the fetal monitoring a bit longer to make sure baby was stable while the ambulance was getting prepped. Wes asked the ambulance driver if he could follow. They said they couldn’t tell him to do that since they would have their lights on. He wondered later if he should have asked if they could follow him!

In the ambulance I was hooked up to another fetal monitoring device. It wasn’t picking up my contractions very well, so I had to tell them when they started and stopped. Let me just tell you, an ambulance is not air-ride equipped.

3-6mo outfits

I made sure to take pictures of the first time wearing 3-6mo outfits. Yes, sadly this has passed by and we are getting ready to phase some of the smaller ones out and replace with the smaller 6-9mo outfits.


Blowing bubbles or aka frothing at the mouth












Dad learns it's an art form changing out of Sunday Best.






Wednesday, April 16, 2014

Footwear


"New" footwear from kids corner for $1. Now we have shoes for the dresses. 

Tummy time was a lot of work!

No shoes yet!! Another sweater aunt Lynae made. 

Saturday, April 12, 2014

Favorite pacifier

Mom's favorite pacifier

Spring clothes 

Sunday best: sweater Aunt Lynae made

New favorite sleeping position 

Happy



What big eyes you have!

Chest Grandpa Dykstra made for all Olivia's blankets. 

Spring fun

Fun at Grandpa and Grandma's farm. 


We'll make a tomboy out of Olivia yet!

"Farmers have hay in their mouth".... And underwear??




Making headbands





We like to read